Dear misogynist: You do not run me.  You do not run us.  You currently may run this world, your home and the Corporate workforce but again, you do not run me.  You do not run me here, you do not run me there, you do not run me off, you do not run me anywhere.  This B talk – think Ted talk but better, is free and one time only, so bring whatever you need to leave different than you came.

1. Misogyny is HATE of women.  Hate can be defined as an intense or passionate dislike against someone, a group of someones or something.  Hate leads to things like violating those said things or people, violence, antagonizing…you know, hateful, nasty things.  It is not good.  Words are meant to be used and this one is not used enough.  Probably because its a mouthful, so lets just simplify it for the misogynist in the back and call it women haters – we can all know EXACTLY what those two words mean, so I voted on behalf of all of us and – women/woman haters it is.

2. You came from a woman – the beautiful thing about this is,  it is irrelevant how you identify or what you feel about women.  You came from one, point blank AND period.  One broke her body, soul and who she was in order to give birth to you….who now hates women.  Find- Jesus, therapy, hypnosis, deliverance ..find one, or all.  We are not the problem.

For those of you who do not have ideal mothers – I empathize with you…you STILL get no pass.  Go to therapy.  Get medicated. Get delivered.  Get Jesus.  Get hypnotized.  I don’t care which you choose – violating women was not an option so govern yourselves accordingly.

If you had a wonderful mother – who you declare to owe all that you are to AND/OR a father who valued your mother…you have no excuse.  None.  I am at a slight loss here – let me move on and meditate on how to help you.  You should also meditate.

—I finished the whole blog and still wasn’t sure how to help.  I will leave you with this.  Misogyny  – Woman hating ——-Marie Kondo that mess, expeditiously.  If you do not know who Marie Kondo is or the definition of expeditiously – use Google – we’re exhausted with breaking common sense things down to men who think that by birthright, privilege and genitalia, they run the world.  One, we are equal, remember that.  Two – if anybody’s genitalia runs the world – I think we could all make a strong claim for the vagina – since it actually runs the world….birth by freaking birth, friend.  Yet – we remain kind and compassionate, empathetic, open to equality etc …so basically just follow us.

3.  Woman hating (misogyny for my patronizing men who think women oversimplify and generalize everything – I can say it and spell it, so you can trust me!) often leads to discrimination – in the work force, at church, in homes —really wherever you all unfortunately spend time.  In my famous words to my 15 month old son (who is not a woman hater) – AHT, AHT – Stop that, you know better.  Since I have a feeling that that wont be enough, lets dig deeper, boys.

It is illegal to discriminate on the basIS of sex – it is also illegal to discriminate against pregnancy and complications arising from pregnancy.  Your homeboys wrote and passed the laws sooo you can trust this.  Since you all have a strange relationship with illegal activity and an aversion to policy let me up the game for you – IT IS ILLEGAL.  With that said – again, can trust this because most of your homeboys write and pass laws, so it is definitely a thing.  There are policies in workplaces against you that CLEARY do not make you uncomfortable enough to put on a mask, that simultaneously makes tens and hundreds of women wear a mask to get along with you.  No.  So women, we must raise the bar and expose them to organizations, SAY IT OUT LOUD to the higher ups and not just amongst ourselves, keep paper trails, call the EEOC – NAACP and any other organization with a C that demands equality.

Heads up gentleman – retaliation is also illegal.

To the Sacrilegious Christian men – this word is about religion, essentially and doesn’t even spell religious right.  You are just as confused as this word.  Your God that you claim – is fiercely passionate and protective over women.  You can find it written in his word – that would mean your Bible – there is an app for that if you don’t have one.  So just a tip for showing up to the pearly gate and blaspheming women – or before you get there (aka down here- on earth)and get rerouted – just don’t, bro. Can I call you bro?  I’m just trying to relate – and help -and save us ALL from you. The basis of Christianity is becoming more like him – so more of that, less of you.

To the man with a wife – If she likes it, I love it – for her.  I am not your wife.  Remember the riddle: You do not run me.  You do not run us.  You currently may technically govern this world, your house and the Corporate workforce but again, you do not run me.  You do not run me here, you do not run me there, you do not run me off, you do not run me anywhere.  Luckily, for me and you, I am not your wife.  Remember that and repeat this riddle to yourself if you ever need a new Mantra or just a simple reminder.

To white men who are mildly hateful to white women but openly spit your poisonous privileged venom at black women.  Very simple here – we are not the ones.  Our blood flows with the DNA of our ancestors who were beaten, raped, enslaved and mishandled by you for far too long….your homeboys made that illegal.  Do not do it physically or emotionally.  This is not taxes – stop with the loopholes.  Also – educate yourself.  We are brilliant and have to work harder than anyone else in the face of your hate, stereotypes and mishandling and like Aunt Maya said – like air we rise.  We are NOT the ones.  We are educated enough to fight our battles with the organizations that protect us.  Also – stop doing it to our white sisters and any other sister of any race….AHT, AHT.

Women:  It is time.  Carpe diem, sister.  Take back your peace.  Whatever that means – pray, meditate, cry – whatever, just fight.  Just remember they DO NOT OWN US UNLESS WE LET THEM.  If you’re good with that, great for you, do not set the rest of us back with you, sister.  We still love you, though.  Closed mouths do not get fed.  Be less afraid of courage – even if it comes with full eyes, anxiety, fear and backlash than you are of opening your mouth.  We can change things independently but even moreso in numbers.  We are raising the next generation.  They are watching.  What do we want to teach them about woman hating?  Show this post, talk about it with your men – let them share it with their men.  Share it with your sisters – so we know how to organize.  This is for everyone but especially them…the women haters.

We’ve got work to do sister, so 1-2-3 BREAK!

One last thing to the woman haters – this is basically a personality flaw and I’d even venture to call it a personality disorder BUT we see you, you are not mentally ill – you are deeply flawed by hate.  Get help.

B.